Ugh, I hate to admit this, but we totally dropped the ball on Hadley's monthly photos. I should have just continued on with her monthly posts without the monthly pictures, but my OCD self coudln't handle that...so there's no record of her monthly photos or posts on the blog. :( And that makes me really sad since poor baby #2 gets no baby book other than this blog. ;) But the reality of it is that there's just not enough time anymore for this mama! When we just had Shelby and she slept in until 8:30 every morning
and napped for 3+ hours
and went to bed early, I had all the time in the world! (Someone remind me again why I ever thought just one baby was hard?! Wow, perspective is everything!) But anyhow, I'm finally throwing in the towel on the monthly photos/posts! In lieu of that, here's an update on what life looks like right now for us with a four year old & 1.5 year old.
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| Reading books in the backyard on a nice fall afternoon. This was a random idea, and the girls LOVED it! |
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| Walking home from our neighborhood playground one afternoon. |
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| Shaving cream & cornstarch..one of Shelby's favorite activities! |
I think my favorite part of this stage is that the girls are really starting to become friends. They'll be sitting on the living room floor playing, and Hadley will randomly look up at Shelby and say: "Chase?" And then in less than two seconds, they're off chasing one another (aka following each other as they run laps around the kitchen) and squealing with delight. Another favorite activity they enjoy together is Shelby "teaching" Hadley words and Hadley repeating them back...this keeps them busy for quite a bit! ;) Shelby is incredibly patient & kind with Hadley and really is such a wonderful big sister. Case in point: We were in Target the other day and Hadley was throwing a fit b/c she wanted a snack and didn't want the snack I had in the diaper bag for her. In the midst of her fit, Hadley started lashing out and hitting Shelby (they were sitting in the cart next to one another). Since Hadley wasn't calming down, I quickly moved Shelby into the basket part of the shopping cart where she would be out of Hadley's reach. Shelby became visibly upset when I moved her and I thought Hadley had really hurt her. Shelby insisted that she wasn't hurt and told me: "Mama, I just want to sit with Hadley. I really don't mind if she hits me. It's okay." Seriously, the sweetest big sister! Thank goodness for the popcorn at Target--after I got the bag of popcorn in Hadley's hands, we never heard another peep out of her during that shopping trip. ;) Best dollar I've every spent! :) Snacks are truly Hadley's love language.
Shelby continues to be smart as a whip and loves going to preschool. She is becoming quite the artist! Every day when she walks into school, she goes straight to the Art Studio to start painting. We have quite an extensive art collection in our house now. ;) Her favorite thing to do is read, and it never ceases to me amaze how phenomenal of a reader she is. And we apparently read too many princess stories. A couple weekends ago when we were at South Texas Maize, Shelby really wanted me to ride in the same seat with her on the barrel train ride. I told her I didn't think there was enough room for me to fit with her but that I would still try. Quoting Aladdin, Shelby reached her hand out to me to help me in the train with her and said: "Do you trust me?" ;) As we were getting ready to leave the farm and walk to the car (a pretty long walk), Shelby looked around and said: "Where's our magic carpet?!" ;)
Hadley is also as smart as a whip and is talking up a storm lately! Shelby didn't really start talking much until around this age, but Hadley's vocabulary is already through the roof! Two word phrases are becoming more and more common. Because Daddy torments her constantly, she learned how to say "stop please" pretty quickly. And if she feels like she's being left out when we're looking at a book or something else out of her line of vision, she'll start yelling "See that! See that!" And anytime you give Hadley something, she'll almost always say "Thank you" in the sweetest little voice you've ever heard. She is a walking pro now & becuase she loves to play chase with her big sister, she's pretty adept at running already too! Hadley continues to be a great eater & loves nothing better than snacking all day! She is literally as sweet as pie and loves to hug, kiss, & snuggle...but she is NOT afraid to let you know when she wants something! Shelby
never threw a tantrum, it's just not her personality. She could whine all day long, but tantrums were just not her style. Hadley has certainly kept us on our toes in this department to say the least. It's little things that I know are
totally normal for kids this age, but we are navigating this area of parenting like first-time parents b/c we just didn't have to deal with this with Shelby. We were getting ready to come downstairs yesterday, and Hadley started to walk down the stairs then stopped and said "Hold you?" When I proceeded to pick her up, she yelled "No! Walk!" So I let her walk, and she immediately said "Hold you?" We repeated this scenario about ten more times before I finally just walked downstairs. Of course, she threw an epic tantrum before coming downstairs then proceeded to lay on the floor for ten minutes crying just to make sure I knew she was upset. I always tell Derek when he comes home at night that it's a wonder I have any sanity left! ;) Hadley is still rather attached to me, and if she doesn't see me she'll wander around the house yelling "Mama! Mama!" over & over again until she finds me. She also will just randomly start calling my name in the car after a few minutes just to make sure I'm still there. ;) Some days it's really cute, but if I'm being honest some days it drives me up the wall. ;)


Both girls love their sleep, but they have very different sleep needs. Shelby is always awake first in the mornings and usually comes downstairs around 7:15-7:30 on most days. Hadley sleeps in until 8:30 most days, but some days it's after 9. They both nap at the same time (around 1:30-2), but Hadley is a super short napper compared to how Shelby napped at this age. Shelby would take a 3-4 nap as a baby whereas Hadley functions very well off a 1.5 hour nap. Her naps usually range anywhere from 1.5-2.5 hours, but thankfully she'll play in her crib for a while after waking up from nap. Lately Shelby has been taking about 2-2.5 hour naps, but 4:00 is her cut-off for naptime in order to preserve a reasonable bedtime. About 50% of the time, I have to go in her room to wake her up from nap. ;) Hadley always goes to bed first around 7:45 or 8, and Shelby is usually in bed around 8:30 but occasionally not until 9 b/c we like to play a card game or do a special "big girl" activity with us after Hadley is in bed (aka something that is difficult to do with a baby around, ha!).
We had check-ups for the girls earlier this month, Shelby was 43 inches & 43 pounds if I recall correctly. Her height was still 99th percentile, but she had dropped to the 91st percentile in weight. Hadley surprised us a bit by weighing in at 26 pounds & measuring 32 inches, which put her at the 74th & 59th percentiles respectively. Shelby has always been in the 90s for her percentiles (usually 95+), so Hadley's percentiles were really astonishing especially considering how much more she eats than Shelby ever did as a baby!!
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A scary glimpse of what our life will look like in 12 years..eek!! ;) {This was taken at a birthday party tonight.} |
Every Tuesday & Thursday, we get to preschool pick-up early and wait outside the gate for the kids to start filing out of the school. As soon as Hadley sees the first preschooler come out of the door, she bolts to the fence and sticks her head through the fence posts yelling Shelby's name over and over and over (and over!) again until Shelby comes outside. Then when Shelby spots her little sister, she comes running to her as fast as she can yelling "Sissy! Sissy!" It's been a true joy to watch their relationship grow over the past year and a half. I hope they always love each other as much as they do now!!